Handbook of Habits

Table of Contents

  1. Preface
  2. Wake up when you wake up
  3. Don't check your phone when you wake up
  4. Make your bed after waking up
  5. Do a proper oral cleansing
  6. When deficating, squat instead of sitting
  7. Post defecation, wash your anal area instead of wiping
  8. Give your body some exercise
  9. Start your day with a bath
  10. Use morning hours for self improvement
  11. Plan your day
  12. What next?

Use morning hours for self improvement


Often we are aware of the habits and changes to cultivate within us (such as not to get angry), but we often forget them when the time arrives. One way to remember these is to make your conscious self be aware of them by training your mind with focussed meditation or mantra meditation1.

Remain in silence and focus on those improvements and how they will transform you (focus meditation), or simply repeat these improvements to yourself for few minutes (mantra meditation). Over a period of time, these improvements will be reinforced in your mind, and your conscious self will be aware of these improvements during the day.

Here are some examples of improvements you can meditate on:

If you already have a list of such improvements, use them. If you don't, as you grow you will realise such improvements.

Why do this now?

There are two reasons why this ritual is best performed after waking up. The first is that your brain is in the most relaxed phase after waking up (emitting alpha and theta waves) allowing you to process and assimilate the self improvements more effectively to your consciousness. When you are relaxed, things happen in the 'flow' or 'autopilot'. They become your nature.

The second reason is on the assumption that you sleep at night and wake up in the morning. One of the ways we get distracted is when our sense organs captures information — eyes capture whatever is happening, ears capture the sounds, nose captures the scents and stinks, skin captures touches and temperature, tongue captures the taste — and our brain has to interpret these information. The early hours will be dark, cool, silent (unless you live next to a religious institution) and serene with not much stimuli to trigger your sense organs and disturb your brain.


  1. Meditation is the sustained practice or various states of mind that gradually benefits you. What benefits you reap depend on what meditation you practice. 

Corrections?

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